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From Incite to Leadership founder and CEO Jo Ilfeld, read the latest on strategic vision, leading change amid complexity, and honing the way you communicate and collaborate with others. Get resources, practical strategies, research, and more.

How Do You End Relationships Honorably?

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | March 16, 2023 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on closure the image shows an empty road with sign saying "empty road ahead"

Do you practice “honorable closure?” As an executive leadership coach, I often speak with my clients about the importance of ending things honorably. In today’s fast-paced business world, it’s easy to get caught up in the next project or the next big thing and forget to take a moment to appreciate what has come before.…

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Gathering 360 Feedback? Two Things You Should Know

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | March 9, 2023 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on 360 feedback the image a hand writing with the words 360 feedback on the right.

360 feedback is a commonly used tool to help individuals gain insight into their strengths and weaknesses. However, not all 360 feedback is created equal. First and foremost, it is important to understand the purpose of the 360 feedback. If it is being used for performance evaluations, the feedback may be less honest and transparent…

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Do as I Say, Not as I Do!

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | March 3, 2023 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on setting a good example the image a group of penguins following the lead penguin.

Do as I Say, Not as I Do! This infamous statement, if not spoken by most parents and leaders, certainly is an accurate reflection of the type of behaviors we want to cultivate in others. You want them to learn from your mistakes, not adopt your bad habits and to generally be happier and more…

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Career Reflection: What if I Knew Then What I Know Now?

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | February 23, 2023 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on career reflection, the image shows a man starting reflectively and thinking.

Taking the time for career reflection is valuable. Recently, I was reflecting with a client on our careers, mine with about 10 years in executive coaching, and his a little longer in his current career. We were asking each other what we had confidence in then and what we have confidence in now. It was…

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Leadership Development: Advice for Those Who Resist Change

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | February 16, 2023 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on leadership development, the image has several post-its all with the word Yes written on them, except for one that says No.

Do you have a leader that you support either because they’re a direct report of yours, or you’re in HR and they’re a leader that you’re helping, and you see that there’s some skill or capacity that would make them so much more effective but you’re struggling to get through to them? From my experience…

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Holding Back Because You Think You’re Not ready? Just Do It

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | February 9, 2023 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on holding back, the image shows the word Wish with a line through it replaced with Do.

Has there been something you wanted to try but you’re holding back because you think you’re not ready? My advice is to go for it! Making LinkedIn videos for the last two and half years or more has its share of difficulties. It wasn’t easy initially, and I made a lot of snafus, but I…

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Three Steps to Ending Things With Grace

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | February 2, 2023 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on ending things with grace, the image shows a fall landscape with a winding road leading into the horizon.

This article originally appeared in Forbes and was listed in January’s Editors’ Picks. Towards the end of last year, I was knee-deep in helping my son, a high school Senior, with his college applications. So we’re talking grammar in my household. We all know that you end sentences with a period. A comma signals that a thought…

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Be a Connector, Not Just a Networker

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | January 26, 2023 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on networking, the image shows pinboard with pins connected by strings.

Be a connector, not just a networker. What do I mean by that? I have built a large network at this stage of my career and one of the most valuable things you can be as a networker, and one I take a lot of pleasure in, is recognizing when I can’t really help someone…

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What Would It Take To Ask For Help?

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | January 19, 2023 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on asking for help, the image shows a woman in a lake with a sign saying Help

How do you feel about asking for help? “It takes a village to run your life,” my Mom used to joke. To be honest, this made me feel a little awkward and uncomfortable, as though there was something wrong with me that I needed help, whether it was an au-pair to help with my kids…

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What is Team Building and Why It’s Critical to Your Business’ Success

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | January 12, 2023 |

What is Team Building?How Team Building Can Make Your Group More Effective & High PerformingWhat Are The Goals Of Your Team Building Program?Who Should Participate In Your Team Building Program?What Type Of Team Building Activities Should You Include?Create An Atmosphere Where Participants ParticipateBenefits Of A Team Building ProgramWhat Are The Steps To Planning An Effective…

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