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From Incite to Leadership founder and CEO Jo Ilfeld, read the latest on strategic vision, leading change amid complexity, and honing the way you communicate and collaborate with others. Get resources, practical strategies, research, and more.

How to Improve Leadership Skills: Are You Making these Little-Known Mistakes?

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | November 13, 2014 |
How to Improve Leadership Skills: Are You Making these Little-Known Mistakes?

“A leader is best when people barely know he exists, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves.” —Lao Tzu

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What Should You Do About Negative Feedback (Especially When It’s Personal)

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | October 30, 2014 |
what you should do about negative feedback

“Across 248 reviews from 28 companies, managers, whether male or female, gave female employees more negative feedback than they gave male employees. Second, 76 percent of the negative feedback given to women included some kind of personality criticism, such as comments that the woman was “abrasive,” “judgmental” or “strident.” Only 2 percent of men’s critical…

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3 Strategies for Dealing With A Challenging Work Relationship

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | October 23, 2014 |
3 Strategies for Dealing With A Challenging Work Relationship

I have a 6 year old daughter. Why am I telling you this? I want you to understand why I’ve seen Frozen multiple times and know the whole soundtrack by heart. I’m really not a Disney princess fanatic, I just. . . . have a 6 year-old daughter.

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Too Busy to Meditate?

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | October 16, 2014 |
Too Busy to Meditate?

Yup, sometimes I feel that way too. That’s why I was really excited to discover that the innovator between the “one-minute meditation” now has a free app. You can download it here.

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Do you mean it when you say “I’m sorry!”?

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | October 13, 2014 |
do you mean it when you say i'm sorry

I’m finding myself reflecting on the changes inherent in autumn – what is growing, and what is ending. And this makes me think about how you can help those around you during times of transition and change.

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Are You A Powerful Communicator?

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | October 8, 2014 |
Are You A Powerful Communicator?

70% of your communications are non-verbal. It’s possible you’ve heard this statistic (or some variation of it) but do you know how to interpret it? How to change your non-verbal communications and become a powerful communicator?

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Business Communication Skills: How to Build this Effective Tool in Your Leadership Arsenal

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | September 24, 2014 |
Business Communication Skills: How to Build this Effective Tool in Your Leadership Arsenal

Business communication skills (or the lack of them, thereof) can either make or break a leader. Great leaders are often singled out for their powerful communication skills.

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What is your “Decision-Making” IQ?

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | September 5, 2014 |
What is your "Decision-Making" IQ?

When I was in graduate school, we had to figure out complicated economics problems where you were maximizing several variables at once. A complex way of saying – “there’s a lot of factors that go into any good decision.”

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Leaders: 5 Signs Your People Skills Need Work

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | August 14, 2014 |
For this article by Jo Ilfeld, Executive Leadership Coach on soft skills for leaders the image shows a redheaded woman with folded arms in an office.

There is a theory called the “Peter Principle” that states that people get promoted to the job where they are the worst. And then they stay put. Which of course means many people have bosses who they believe are awful at their job…

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Where’s Your Next Devil?

By Jo Ilfeld, PhD | July 28, 2014 |

Have you ever been really scared? Recently at a family reunion at Lake Tahoe, we stayed at a retreat center that had a ropes course. I thought signing up to do this with my immediate and extended family would be fun.

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